Hello,
Below are the requested tardy info.
After we "butted heads" so badly and ended up arguing and almost yelling at each other, (even worse than my experience with Mrs. Fox), I thought dealing with you was a lost cause, and any chance of you listening to reality was a lost cause as well and I would have to go through another long and expensive trial just to prove the way things are...
After talking with you on the phone this week, I realized there may be a better possibility with reasoning with you so I am making this web page.
Given that Christine is a very good liar, and she won a "he said, she said" war with Mrs. Fox and the truth was twisted and warped, and a bogus mediation report was born from it...
Because you seem to reference Mrs. Fox's OLD mediation report, almost like your "bible" in my case, and you hypocritically say things like "the video of Christine hitting Brady McCall is old", even though it was from the SAME YEAR as Mrs. Fox's mediation report....
Here is a letter to the judge from Adriana, from that same year...
Here is some "reality" for ya... This is where Christine lives... The
VIOLENT CRIME rate in her town of El Dorado is over 750, in one year, while the recorded population is just
over 700, as reported by the El Dorado Sheriff Department, (the records
division).
Also, her house is not inside of the kids school district.
Legally, if she had custody, they can not go to the school they have been
attending for the last 6 years!
Her house is behind the
notorious Poor Reds Bar, (the green house in the background is hers)
Her backyard, IS A BAR!
All these were taken
next door to Christine's house
All these were taken next door
to Christine's house
All these were taken next
door to Christine's house
Her "backyard bar"
All these were taken next
door to Christine's house
The "house" across the street
from her.
The "house" across the street
from her.
The "house" across the street
from her.
The "house" across the
street from her.
This is MY house, 2600 SF, $500,000 home in a GOOD neighborhood.
The house across the
street from my house
The house across the street
from my house
The house across the street
from my house
The house across the street
from my house
Here may be an explanation of
why I "butted heads" with you and Mrs. Fox. It is also a good testimony of the
FACT that I am a good father, despite my ADHD.
Eden's spelling test,
our week.
Adriana's grades.
Our family...
Adriana, Tracy, Dean, Eden, Brady, Gabe.
Eden's little business
we help her with, in front of OUR, safe, house.
This is a letter from
Adriana, to Tracy Biddle. It was writen about a year ago.
Oh, YA.. BTW, you said
something about how you thought it was strange that Adriana is living with Tracy
and I, you even "kind of" implied there was something wrong with
it.... Well, THERE IS A REASON CHRISTINE HAS LOST CUSTODY OF HER SON, Brady McCall DePersia, and her daughter Adriana Nicole DePersia. She has a history of
documented abuse, neglect and drug abuse..
AND, the judge, after a long trial, with many experts, including her physiologists', ruled for me to get custody because it was in Adriana's DePersia's BEST INTEREST..
"3041. (a) Before
making an order granting custody to a person or
persons other than a parent, over the objection of a parent, the
court shall make a finding that granting custody to a parent would be
detrimental to the child and that granting custody to the nonparent
is required to serve the best interest of the child. Allegations
that parental custody would be detrimental to the child, other than a
statement of that ultimate fact, shall not appear in the pleadings.
The court may, in its discretion, exclude the public from the
hearing on this issue.
(b) Subject to subdivision (d), a finding that parental custody
would be detrimental to the child shall be supported by clear and
convincing evidence.
(c) As used in this section, "detriment to the child" includes the
harm of removal from a stable placement of a child with a person who
has assumed, on a day-to-day basis, the role of his or her parent,
fulfilling both the child's physical needs and the child's
psychological needs for care and affection, and who has assumed that
role for a substantial period of time. A finding of detriment does
not require any finding of unfitness of the parents.
(d) Notwithstanding subdivision (b), if the court finds by a
preponderance of the evidence that the person to whom custody may be
given is a person described in subdivision (c), this finding shall
constitute a finding that the custody is in the best interest of the
child and that parental custody would be detrimental to the child
absent a showing by a preponderance of the evidence to the contrary.
3041.5. (a) In any custody or visitation proceeding
brought under
this part, as described in Section 3021, or any guardianship
proceeding brought under the Probate Code, the court may order
any
person who is seeking custody of, or visitation with, a child who is
the subject of the proceeding to undergo testing for the illegal use
of controlled substances and the use of alcohol if there is a...."
This is Gabe's hand writing without medication.
Gabe's handwriting with
medication.
The time their school
starts.
A letter to Christine
about the kids being late. Please note the law 48260 clearly states that they
can ONLY be considered late if they are MORE than 30 minuets late each time.
The time the school starts.
The kids were never
more than 8 minutes late.
Their sign in
sheet.
Gabe's spelling test on our week. We take the responsibility of raising our
kids, THE RIGHT WAY, very seriously.
His
medication and good partnering are essential! Christine FOUGHT against Gabe
getting on the medication the EXPERT doctors prescribed. Her lawyer told her to
stop fighting it because it would look bad in court, so she did.
Christine's
week, SAME CHILD! Gabe's spelling test.
Our week. Gabe's spelling test. 19 out of 20, that's my boy!
Christine's
week, same kid. :-0
Christine's
week, still Gabriel.
A letter from school when Christine caused such a ruckus and threatened to sue
the doctor for prescribing Gabriel medication that he stopped refilling Gabe's
medication. It has been a typical battle. If I want to do something for the
kids, GOOD OR BAD, she fights against it.. Her desire to fight with me over
ANYTHING, is above what is good for the children.
Another one
Note the INCOMPLETE
homework from Eden on Christine's weeks.
Note the INCOMPLETE
homework from Eden on Christine's weeks.
Note the INCOMPLETE
homework from Eden on Christine's weeks.
We don't beat, or yell
and scream, or threaten the kids while we do homework with them. It is our
"secret parenting trick" that we use to help our children grow.
We don't beat, or yell
and scream, or threaten the kids while we do homework with them. It is our
"secret parenting trick" that we use to help our children grow.
Note the INCOMPLETE homework from Eden on Christine's weeks.
Note the INCOMPLETE homework from Eden on Christine's weeks.
We don't beat, or yell
and scream, or threaten the kids while we do homework with them. It is our
"secret parenting trick" that we use to help our children grow.
We don't beat, or yell
and scream, or threaten the kids while we do homework with them. It is our
"secret parenting trick" that we use to help our children grow.
Regarding the recent
accusations from Christine that we took the kids to school late.... Well, we did
take them to school late 2 times... Once was due to our car breaking down, and
the other one is obviously a mistake or the kids were "distracted"... It was on
October 31st, Halloween party at school...
Christine was late THREE TIMES...
Eden's work, our week.
Eden's work, our week
Eden's work, our week..
This one is very typical. She only missed one.. That's my GIRL.
This one is from
Christine's week, this is TYPICAL when she is with Christine!
ELEVEN WRONG
Eden's work, our week
My wife is not here right
now, (she is volunteering at the kids school today), but she has more records
showing the obvious differences between the kids performance in school, and in
life, week on, week off.
My children are like yo yos with this current parenting plan, with no
constancy and an obvious lack of "parenting" during the weeks Christine has
them.. We have everything documented and we are ready and willing to do whatever
it takes to insure their happiness and success.
You gave
reasons of not wanting to talk to Adriana because you thought Mrs. Fox is right
and that I may have "brain-washed" her or that she is "aligned" with me.
There is one other child which has had first hand experience with Christine, and has been abused by Christine, and he has come up with this conclusion all by himself because he does not live with me, LOL. (Sorry, I had to be sarcastic.)
His name is, Brady McCall, and his home phone number is 530-892-9815, his father's name is Julius McCall. Brady has a cell phone which is 530-919-2501. His address is: 29 San Ramon Drive, Chico, CA 95973. He can tell you things that the younger children have not been asked about or do not remember.
If you want to talk to him about the situation that happened between him and Gabriel, because he is ashamed of it and may not talk to you about it, or maybe even lie to you, you may need to tell him these exact words: "Your other daddy, Dean, said to tell you that it is okay to talk to me about what happened between you and Gabriel. And that I am not going to get you in trouble and you are not in trouble now, I just need to know the truth too, so I can help figure out where your younger brother and sister should live. I just need to know who is telling me the truth, Dean or Christine"
I have not talked to Brady or Julius in several weeks, or informed them in any way that you might be contacting them, NOR have I "coaxed", "aligned" or in any way persuaded them about their viewpoints. If you run into any problems talking with them, I will call them on 3-way, and talk to them about you while you're on the line, so everything's out in the open.
Then, I am sure they will have no problem talking to you.. I just want to make sure you do not think I "aligned" them. (oh, man, it is so hard not to be sarcastic... If you only knew the truth) Anyways.... If they need to be told about why you want to talk with him or Brady, I would rather do it while you are on the phone so you will know I have not done anything bad.